Anonymous sent: I don't know who the person in post/93207839594, but if their still a minor they can report everything the Aunt A, the Bio dad, and the mom for doing as child abuse and get put into a home. I know it is wrong to say such a thing, but I'm worry about this persons safety. I live near Georgia and I know the small town like that there have a thing about people that are into the same sex. It's part of the "Bible Belt" after all. I really wish I could help more than that.
hi that’s me ; w ; I’m that person. and I worry for my safety as well. I’m no longer a minor as of freburary and I was actually raised in Florida and DCF was a huge part of my life but they didn’t help like at all
so now I’m an adult and on my own in the literal worst place to be panro in so I’m just PBBTBHPTB
thank you for your concern it makes me feel better as weird as that sounds
Anonymous sent: Pertaining to self inserts... I tend to advise against them (not always, however) because I've seen people that act like we literally shot their parents when we have an OC be rude to them, or not be super nice to them upon just meeting...even when the OC is meant to be that way. Self inserts CAN be done very tastefully and skillfully. Just understand the events in the RP aren't directly happening to you, I suppose I can say. I hope I didn't offend anybody with my opinion...OTL
it seems a lil silly to advise against self inserts in their entirety rather than advising against forgetting the line between real life and fiction babbu anon fremb!!!! but that is one of the many problems new writers can run into when writing self inserts v n v but don’t let that discourage you from rping with self inserts!!!
although, as a VAUGELY unrelated side note!!! as someone who plays volatile OCs who can lash out violently when put into verbally hostile situations, please warn someone if your oc will be particularly mean to your partner’s before they thread/script/post/play with you!!! I cannot express how stressful it can be having to find ways to have your characters react IC when normally they’d have adverse reactions that could cause lots of problems ic and ooc. pls be mindful of your partners and the plot of ur rps BBS!!! ♥🐰🎶
Anonymous sent: How do I explain to a friend just because I do self inserts that I'm not a Gary Stu? Like I think it's OK to add yourself into a world because it's fantasy or scifi. As long as you don't make yourself the end all or the best and insead a side where you are just there, that it isn't bad. Like no extra this or that... I dunno. I suck at arguing
YEAH I NEVER GOT THE HATRED AGAINST SELF INSERTS the entire fucking point of fiction is to get to escape real life and explore this beautiful and intricate universe and some people want to do that with a character that represents themselves
i dont see the issue in that
wheres the problem
so heres my advice: remind them that a mary sue is a character that breaks the rules of the universe and a self insert is simply a representation of it’s creator. if they cannot understand that they are not package deal traits, dont talk to them about your characters and find a community that aint full of shit
Anonymous sent: Is it possible you could tag the stuff you post that isn't about a Mary Sue? I love seeing the sues, but an increasing amount of the stuff posted is just asks or drama and it's really starting to get annoying...
I do my best to tag with “t replies” and “mod post” but like in the end this is a discussion and showcasing blog that’s not getting enough submissions of sues and is thus compensating by dealing in discussion. if us posting too many asks and nonsue posts is an issue, it’d be nice if those bothered could actually help out a little and submit some sues!
Anonymous sent: I find it amazingly predictable and typical that some little girl who's still going through her anime phase would lack the maturity and common sense that is required for making your OCs better (rather than continuing to make sues and then make up excuses). Shes just an entitled, sheltered little child. Hopefully she will realize how ridiculous this is in like, 5 years, same as how we all do when we finally turn 15.
on her FAQ it says shes turning 27 this year
Anonymous sent: oh get this, in true deviantart fashion that girl who was throwing a bitchfit about this blog is deleting any comments that point out that shes wrong about this whole art theft bullshit.
like do you ever get washed over by this unbelievable feeling of apathy that latches onto your entire soul and like
like you just stop caring. the fucks have left the building. there is nothing left but room temperature irritation that fades within seconds of appearing
this girl has done this to me. she mas made me care so little i can barely function
ok s ince s replied to an ask i was literally replying to tke my reply hhh
we dont really need any right now, im sorry sugar ; A ; im already fighting with s for inbox dominance rn (ilu s kun chan) and im super iffy about adding people to the mod roster cause once you’re in i cant admin kick from the member list! and its caused us problems before with a mod who wouldnt leave. im sorry sugarpea QQ <333
Anonymous sent: *ahem* OMG HOW DARE U UPLOAD MY OC, THIS IS PLAGIRYSMS AND I CAN SUE YOU FO THIS. WHAT IS WRONG WITH U GUYS. TAKE DOWN MY OC AT ONCE OR I WILL EAT U. (was my impersonation close enough)
almost as good as the time the word “hippocrepes” was coined
Anonymous sent: a lot of nonbinary people dislike the term enbiesm just so yall know
AGGRESSIVELY STOPS USING IT UNLESS AROUND MY NB FREMBS WHO PREFER IT
Anonymous sent: haha, don't feel bad! it's impossible to know unless told, all anyone can do is do their best and correct as they learn. you're doing a wonderful job. <3
TBH I HAD BEEN TOLD IT WAS THE PREFFERED TERM BY MANY?? a lot of my NB friends have me refer to them that way so I figured it was a safe term to use but
I shall do my best to avoid it overall!!!!
Anonymous sent: I don't mean to be "that guy", but from what I know, bisexuality is the attraction to only two genders, male and female. (Hence the "bi" in "bisexual". Sex is usually irrelevant.) There are other gender identities aside from male/female (bigender, agender, etc.), which pansexuality covers. At least, that's my understanding of it, as a pansexual enby. Maybe I just misunderstood when you said "Yes to ALL genders" as a definition of bisexual.
I believe many people dislike that definition since it is pretty binarist according to a ton of enbies???
personally I define bisexuality as yes to two or more genders but not always all genders so it can still matter while pansexuality to me is “idfc what ur gender is let’s smooch let’s GOOOO YAS”